Roommates & Sharing
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Your Right To Have A Roommate
Your Rights As A Roommate
How is a roommate different from a cotenant, a subtenant/subletter, a family member who lives with me, or a guest?
The word roommate is used in everyday language to describe many types of situations where two or more unrelated people share the same apartment. However, there is a legal distinction between the different types of arrangements, and it’s important to know which one applies to you.
Your rights vary depending on the arrangement. What matters in court, if you ever end up there, is what the actual situation is, not what you called it.
A roommate refers only to a person who is not named on the lease of the apartment he/she shares with the prime tenant or leaseholder, and is not to be confused with the following:
- A cotenant is named on the same lease as one or more other people who all share the same apartment. Cotenants equally share the full rights and responsibilities of the tenancy.
- A subtenant or subletter is someone who rents an apartment from the prime tenant (rather than from the landlord) for a period of time when the prime tenant is temporarily away. If someone lives in your apartment while you live elsewhere most of the time, legally that person is not your roommate; he/she is your subletter (either legally or illegally). Many tenants have the right to sublet by law, but you must follow proper procedures and/or obtain written consent from your landlord. If you don’t, it can lead to eviction. (Read more about subletting your apartment.)
- A family member is a member of the primary tenant’s family who lives in the apartment but is not named on the lease. Some family members, in certain situations, have succession rights: They can take over the apartment when the prime tenant moves or dies. (Read more about succession rights in rent stabilized and rent controlled apartments.) Also, when determining the right of tenants to have an additional roommate, certain family members are not counted.
- A guest or licensee is a person who has permission from the primary tenant to stay in the apartment temporarily, but who has no written agreement and does not pay rent. For example: Your cousin comes to stay with you and sleeps on your couch for a week.
Can my family members live with me?
Immediate family members of the primary tenant who live in the apartment but are not on the lease are not considered roommates. All tenants have a right to live with family members so long as their apartment does not become overcrowded. However, tenants in public housing and subsidized housing must accurately report all household members and their incomes, including when this information changes mid-lease. Failure to do so is grounds for eviction. In some circumstances, criminal convictions can lead individuals to be excluded. Also, exceptions may apply to tenants who receive a rent subsidy or rent exemption (see further in this information sheet for more on this).
Do I have the right to have a roommate?
If you live in a privately owned building, and
If you are the only person who signed your lease (for rent control: if you are the only tenant of record),
Then you have the right to share your apartment with one other adult not related to you, and that person’s dependent children.
You do not have a right to a roommate if:
- you live in public housing or most subsidized housing, or
- if two or more people have signed the lease, and your lease does not expressly give you permission to live with an additional person.
There are additional considerations if you receive a rent subsidy (such as Section 8 or FEPS) or a rent exemption (such as SCRIE or DRIE), or if your rent is based on your income. Most programs require that you report what the roommate pays in rent as part of your income. Failure to accurately report this income can be a serious violation of the program’s rules and could lead to termination of the program as well as legal actions. Also, bringing in a roommate may make your income too high to remain eligible for the program. Check your program’s guidelines before taking in household members.
More than one person has signed my lease. Do I have the right to take in an additional person as a roommate?
If two or more people signed your lease (for rent control: if there is more than one tenant of record) you are not entitled to have any roommates—even if the cosigner is your spouse or another family member. But if one or more of the tenants named on the lease (or one or more of the rent-controlled tenants of record) moves out, the departing tenant or tenants can be replaced by the same number of roommates. For example, if three people cosigned a lease and two of them move out, the remaining tenant may have two roommates.
I have no lease. What are my rights to have a roommate?
The roommate law allows certain tenants to have one roommate (see earlier question “Do I have the right to have a roommate?”). Having a lease is not one of the criteria. However, if you do not have a lease (and are not a rent-controlled tenant), you are a month-to-month tenant, and your landlord can end your tenancy with 30 day’s notice. Therefore, you might want to get your landlord’s permission before bringing in a roommate. (This warning does NOT apply if you are a rent-controlled tenant. While rent-controlled tenants often do not have leases, their landlords cannot evict them without cause—so rent controlled tenants are not at risk by following the roommate law.)
Do I have to inform my landlord that I have taken in a roommate?
You must inform your landlord of the name of a new roommate within 30 days after the roommate moves in, or within 30 days after your landlord requests that you provide the roommate’s name. Failure to notify your landlord that you have a roommate carries no statutory penalty.
Can I get my roommate’s name added to the lease? Or can I arrange to have my roommate take over the lease for this apartment if I move or die?
If you live in a rent-stabilized apartment, your landlord must add the name of your spouse to a renewal lease when requested. In all other cases, your landlord is not obligated to add anyone’s name to your lease (whether rent-stabilized or not) including when your lease is being renewed.
Some family members (including non-traditional family members) who live in the apartment may be entitled to take over a rent-stabilized, rent-controlled, or Mitchell-Lama apartment and the lease by establishing succession rights when the primary tenant moves or dies. Where there is no family relationship, roommates do not have succession rights. (Read more about succession rights in rent stabilized and rent controlled apartments.)
Roommates do not acquire any right to remain in the apartment if the named tenants move, die, or are evicted. They do not acquire any right to purchase the apartment under a cooperative or condominium conversion plan (unless you and your landlord give specific permission in writing).
How much am I allowed to charge my roommate for rent?
If you live in an unregulated (market-rate) or good cause apartment, there are no laws governing the maximum amount of money you may charge a roommate. However, if you charge your roommates a disproportionate share of the rent, it often creates bitterness and hostility. Also, there may be restrictions in your lease.
If you are a rent-stabilized or rent-controlled tenant, you are prohibited from charging a roommate more than a proportionate share of the rent. This means:
* If you have one roommate, the maximum you can charge that person is one-half of the rent—even if that roommate’s bedroom or living area is larger or more desirable, or if they have access to more of the apartment.
* If you have more than one roommate, you must charge each roommate for his or her proportional share. This share is determined by dividing the legal rent by the number of people on the lease plus the number of roommates. (Example: if three adults share an apartment, each must be charged no more than 1/3 of the rent.) This number does not include the tenants’ spouse or family members, nor the roommates’ dependent children.
If I have a roommate, do I have to report his or her income on my SCRIE or DRIE application?
A roommate who is not a member of your family and who pays you money to live in your apartment is not treated as part of your household. You do not have to report that roommate’s income on your SCRIE or DRIE application, but you must report as income the amount of rent or other money you received from a roommate. (Read more about SCRIE – Senior Citizen Rent Increase Exemption.)
I live with a roommate, but my landlord is calling that person a “subletter” and is accusing me of illegally subletting the apartment. What can I do?
If your landlord accuses you of illegally subletting, or if your landlord begins legal proceedings against you based on such allegations, you are strongly encouraged to consult an experienced attorney, even if your landlord’s allegations are false. The consequence of losing such a case can be eviction from your apartment.
Legal Disclaimer
The information contained on this web page does not constitute legal advice and must not be used as a substitute for the advice of a lawyer qualified to give advice on legal issues pertaining to housing. For more, visit our page on Finding a lawyer.
This information pertains only to tenants living in New York City.
Many of your rights depend on the type of housing you live in or your type of tenancy. You may be subject to different laws and have different sets of rights than even neighbors in your own building. Learn which rights and responsibilities apply to you.
Do roommates have rights?
Roommates who are not named on the apartment lease have some limited rights, but their tenancies are among the most vulnerable. Broadly, roommates are covered by laws that protect tenants from being illegally evicted (see below) and that ensure tenants access to basic services (such as water and electricity). Also, roommates are entitled to enforce provisions of the lease or roommate agreement with the primary tenant of the apartment, so long as the agreement does not violate applicable laws nor the primary lease for the apartment.
What if the prime tenant I rent from evicts me, changes the locks, prevents me from entering, or moves out my belongings – or threatens to do so?
If you are a roommate, you are protected against illegal evictions just like everyone else in New York City. The laws regarding evictions apply if:
- you have lived in the apartment for at least 30 days (whether or not you have ever paid rent), or
- you have a valid lease (including a roommate agreement) signed by both parties, or
- the prime tenant of the apartment accepted rent from you. (Note: you must be able to prove that you paid the rent. Receipts are better than nothing, but cash payments can pose problems. The best proof of payment is a canceled check or receipt from a money order, which can be traced if necessary.)
If any of the above apply to you, the prime tenant of the apartment must start an eviction case against you in court to legally remove you from the apartment. You must be served court papers, and you have a right to appear in court and present defenses. If a warrant of eviction is ordered by a judge in the case, the eviction must be carried out by a marshal or sherriff. It is illegal for anyone else – including the prime tenant of the apartment – to:
- remove you or your belonging from the apartment, or
- prevent you from entering the apartment or your room, or
- change the locks to the apartment entrance or to your room without giving you the new key, or
- cut off essential services that you do not control – like hot water, heat, or electricity
To learn more read our information sheet on Illegal Evictions tab above.
Be warned: roommates are vulnerable to unexpected evictions when the prime tenant of the apartment is evicted through legal means by the landlord. Sometimes, prime tenants do not inform their roommate of eviction proceedings. When prime tenants are legally evicted, the order of eviction usually applies to all occupants of the apartment – including roommates. See below for more about this process, and how to protect yourself in such cases.
What happens to me as a roommate if the prime tenant I rent from is evicted? How can I protect myself from being thrown out along with him/her?
If the prime tenant of the apartment is legally evicted, the court order usually allows the eviction to be carried out against all occupants of the apartment, including roommates. Sometimes roommates are unaware of the eviction case against the prime tenant.
If court papers are served on your apartment, or if you suspect that your roommate is facing an eviction but not informing you, it is advisable to visit the Housing Court and search to find out whether there is an open eviction case against the prime tenant. You may be able to get assistance in finding out if such a case exists from the advocates at Housing Court Answers – a nonprofit organization that staffs information tables in the New York City Housing Courts.
If a marshal’s notice or other court papers are served on your apartment, you can to go to housing court and ask to temporarily delay the eviction. You can file an “Order to Show Cause” – which is a request to have a hearing in front of a judge. You will have to know the Index Number for the eviction case. The Index Number will be written on the Marshal’s Notice, as well as all other official court papers. You can also look up the Index Number on the public access computers in the Housing Court, and you may get help in doing so from people at the information tables run by Housing Court Answers. The judge may or may not give you a chance to present your case – and to get extra time to move. Unfortunately, judges do not always delay the date of a marshal eviction simply because a roommate was unaware of the court case.
If you are legally evicted by a marshal, you can go to court to file an “Order to Show Cause” and request that you be restored to the apartment, or be permitted to take your personal belongings. If you were unaware of the eviction proceedings entirely until the marshal arrived to lock the door, explain this to the judge. Even if the judge does not grant you permission to return to the apartment, you do have a right by law to recover your personal belongings. If your belongings are still in the apartment, the judge can order the landlord to give you temporary access to move out your belongings (and such orders can be enforced by the police, if necessary).
Is my roommate situation legal? Is the person I rent from allowed to have me as a roommate?
New York State law protects the right of tenants in privately-owned buildings to have a roommate under certain conditions. If those conditions are met, tenants do not need the permission of the landlord to have an additional occupant, and are legally allowed to have a roommate even if their lease prohibits it.
The law states that so long as the apartment does not become overcrowded, tenants have the right to share their apartments with immediate family members (there is no limit in the law as to the number) plus one other unrelated adult, and that person’s dependent children, if:
- the tenant lives in a privately-owned building, and
- only one person has signed the lease (for rent control: if there is only one tenant of record)
Tenants do not have a right to a roommate if:
- they reside in public housing or most subsidized housing (whether or not the roommate is being charged rent or has a source of income), or if
- more than one person has signed the lease (including spouses, children, or other family members) and the lease does not expressly give the tenant permission to live with an additional person
- If the tenant is receiving a rent-subsidy or a rent exemption, taking in a roommate may put them over-income for the program and in violation of the program’s rules.
Is my roommate agreement valid? Can I enforce the rights in this agreement as a lease?
If a roommate agreement has been signed by both the named tenant and the roommate, it serves as a contract and operates similar to other leases. It is valid to the extent that it follows applicable laws, and that it does not violate the overriding lease the prime tenant has with the owner of the building (or of the unit, in cases of condominiums and co-ops).
For example, if the agreement says that the roommate will pay $500 per month for the room for 6 months, the named tenant cannot move to evict the roommate or to raise the rent for the room during that six month period, except for cause (such as failure to pay the rent, substantial breach of the contract, or for being a nuisance). In this type of scenario, the roommate’s rights are similar to those of an unregulated (market-rate) tenant who has a lease.
What rights do I have if I don’t have a written agreement with the prime tenant?
If you do not have a written agreement with the named tenant, or if you continue to live in the apartment beyond the length of time of your last agreement, you are a month-to-month roommate. The prime tenant can change the terms of your argreement (including the amount you are being charged) or ask you to leave upon 30 days written notice. As a month-to-month roommate, you can give your 30 day notice at any point. If you do not leave, the primary tenant must take you to court to have you legally evicted.
Is there a maximum amount of rent that I can be charged as a roommate?
The type of apartment you live in determines whether or not there is a limit to the amount of rent that you can legally be charged as roommate.
If you live in an unregulated (market-rate) or good cause apartment, there is no limit to the amount of rent that you can be charged as a roommate. Even though it may be unfair to charge roommates a disproportionate amount of rent for their part of the apartment, it isn’t necessarily illegal to do so.
If you live in a rent stabilized apartment, you cannot legally be charged more than a ‘proportional share’ of the rent – up to half of the total rent for the apartment. Even if you occupy a larger bedroom than the primary tenant, the most you can be charged is half of the total rent. In cases where there is more than one roommate, the share of the rent should be divided by the number of roommates. Note that New York’s Roommate Law only gives the right of tenants to have one additional roommate except when the lease for the apartment permits additional roommates.
As a roommate, how can I find out if my apartment is rent-stabilized, and if so, what the legal rent is? How can I file a rent overcharge complaint?
You can find out whether your building contains rent-stabilized apartments by going to WhoOwnsWhat. However, you won’t be able to use these resources to check if your particular apartment is rent-stabilized (as the apartment you live in may have been de-regulated) or what the legal rent of your apartment is.
If you believe that you are being overcharged as a roommate, you can investigate the matter with HCR by filing: Form RA-89: Tenant’s Complaint of Rent and/or Other Specific Overcharges in Rent Stabilized Apartments. You will need to show proof of the payments you have been making to the prime tenant. (Canceled checks or money orders are the best proof; you may have a problem if you paid in cash, but receipts are better than nothing.) If HCR agrees that you have been overcharged, you can get an order for the prime tenant to refund you the amount of the overcharge – and in some cases, treble damages if the overcharge is found by HCR to be fraudulent. Be advised that you must inform the prime tenant of your rent overcharge complaint, which may cause the prime tenant to ask you to move out. However, you can still collect the overcharge even if you no longer live in the apartment. Make sure to update HCR when your address changes.
The landlord of the building objects to the prime tenant specifically choosing me as a roommate. Is that legal?
If the prime tenant has a right to a roommate (see above:) then the landlord must have a valid reason for objecting to you as a roommate.
Reasonable objections may be:
- you have a criminal history
- you have caused problems at the building
- someone in the building has a restraining order against you
- It is illegal for the building’s owner to object to you based on a form of discrimination that is outlawed by law. For a list of protected classes, consult the New York City Human Rights Commission’s website.
- The landlord of the building is not entitled to know your social security number, to obtain a copy of your credit history, or to know other personal information about you. The landlord cannot force you to prove your ability to pay your share of the rent, or refuse to allow you to be the roommate of someone in the building based on a belief that you cannot afford to pay your share of the rent to the prime tenant.
I paid my rent for the room to the prime tenant – but the prime tenant did not use this to pay the rent for the apartment, and now we’re facing eviction. Can I get my money back?
Recovering money that you paid to the prime tenant will not necessarily be easy – even if this money wasn’t used to pay the rent for teh apartment. If you were able to live in the apartment for the time you paid rent, many courts may consider you to have gotten what you paid for. If you want to seek a refund or damages, you would need to do so by bringing an action in Small Claims Court or Civil Court.
How can I get back my security deposit from the prime tenant?
If the prime tenant of the apartment does not return your security deposit within a reasonable amount of time after you move out, and you feel that you are entitled to this money, your medhod of recovering it is similar to that of any other tenant. Read more about the process on our information sheet on Security Deposits.
Can I be charged extra for utilities and other services?
Your roommate agreement can include obligations to pay a portion of the apartment’s utilities, cable, phone, internet, or other bills. In a rent-stabilized apartment, where there are restrictions on the amount of rent that can be charged to roommates, these charges should not be included in the rent, and should be paid for separately.
As a roommate, can I have my name added to the lease of the apartment?
If the person you rent a room from wants you to be added to his/her next lease, you both can make this request of the landlord, but the landlord is not obligated to honor the request. Roommates do not have any rights under the law to be added to a lease, and landlords cannot be forced to add anyone’s name to a lease, with one exception – in a rent stabilized apartment, the landlord must add the name of a spouse to a renewal lease upon request.
If your landlord agrees to add your name to the next lease:
- In an unregulated (market rate) or good cause apartment, all terms – including the occupants – can be renegotiated when a new lease is being signed. The new lease is not valid until it is signed by all parties.
- If you live in a rent-stabilized apartment and the landlord agrees to add your name to the next lease, it is considered a “vacancy”, even though no one is moving in or out. That means that if the current tenant has a preferential rent–meaning the landlord agrees to charge them less than the legal regulated rent–adding a new person as a cotenant means that the landlord could now raise their rent up to the legal regulated rent.
As a roommate, can I take over the lease if the primary tenant of the apartment moves away, dies, gives up the apartment, or is evicted? Am I eligible for succession rights?
In rent stabilized and rent controlled apartments, certain family members who have been living in apartment have the right, under certain conditions, to take over the tenancy when the primary tenant moves or dies. The process is referred to as Succession Rights. Non-relatives may have succession rights rights as “nontraditional family members”, but roommates who did not establish a family or family-like relationship with the primary tenant do not have these rights. That means, if you aren’t related to the primary tenant and you both led independent lives (other than sharing the apartment and related expenses) succession rights do not apply. For more on this subject, read our information sheet on Succession Rights.
Unless succession rights apply, as a roommate you do not have special rights to take over the lease to the apartment, no matter how long you have lived there. This applies even if you are willing to pay a rent increase. Tenants do not have the right to transfer their leases to another person, so any arrangement for you to take over the apartment must come through a negotiation between you and the landlord of the building.
If primary tenant in the apartment plans to move away, has already moved away, or has died, you can approach the landlord and request a new lease under your name. Landlords need not give any preference to roommates when re-renting the apartment.
Be on alert if the prime tenant still lives in the apartment and the landlord approaches you with an offer to rent you the apartment. Landlords sometimes try to turn roommates on each other when seeking to evict a tenant, and will ask roommates to testify against primary tenants. The promises landlords make in these situations are often times unenforceable, and if the primary tenant is evicted you will be too. You cannot be given rights to the apartment while it’s occupied by someone else, so ny agreement to rent made prior to prime tenant moving out or being completely evicted may not be valid – even if it is signed by you and the landlord.
In unregulated (market rate) apartments, when the current lease expires, the next lease can be entirely renegotiated. The landlord is not under any legal obligation to renew that lease or offer a new lease to anyone – including any occupants of the apartment, whether named on the prior lease or not.
Legal Disclaimer
The information contained on this web page does not constitute legal advice and must not be used as a substitute for the advice of a lawyer qualified to give advice on legal issues pertaining to housing. For more, visit our page on Finding a lawyer.
This information pertains only to tenants living in New York City.
Many of your rights depend on the type of housing you live in or your type of tenancy. You may be subject to different laws and have different sets of rights than even neighbors in your own building. Learn which rights and responsibilities apply to you.